Maybe Your're Not Lazy...Maybe You're Just Tired

Have you ever stood in the middle of the room, looked around at everything that needed to be done, and thought, I honestly don't know where to begin? It's not because you didn't care or because you were avoiding it. You were simply running completely on empty.

I had one of those afternoons not long ago. The laundry was waiting, the dishwasher needed unloading, a few emails deserved replies, and somewhere in the back of my mind I knew I should probably decide what everyone was eating for dinner. Instead, I stood there holding a

basket of clean towels for what felt like five minutes, wondering why folding them suddenly seemed as challenging as climbing a mountain.

Eventually, I laughed at myself, not because it was funny in the moment, but because I realized the towels hadn't suddenly become heavier, I had, or at least life had.

Burnout has a funny way of disguising itself. It doesn't usually arrive waving a flag that says, "Congratulations, you've officially reached your

limit."

Instead, it quietly whispers things like, I'll do it tomorrow, or Maybe I'll just sit here for a minute first. Before long, even little decisions begin feeling surprisingly difficult, and the things that once felt ordinary somehow require more energy than we seem to have available.

The strange part is that many of us respond by being harder on ourselves.

We tell ourselves we should be more motivated. We should be more organized. We should have more energy. That's an awful lot of "shoulds" for someone who's already exhausted.

I wonder what would happen if, instead of criticizing ourselves, we became a little more curious. What if the problem isn't that we're lazy?

What if we're simply tired? Really tired. I didn't stayed up too late watching one more episode.

The kind of tired that comes from showing up for everyone else day after day, carrying responsibilities that rarely take a day off, and giving so much of yourself that you eventually forget you've been giving.

I think many women know that kind of tiredness.

It's the tiredness that remains even after a good night's sleep. A friend of mine recently laughed as she told me she'd gone to the grocery store and come home with everything except the three things she actually went there to buy. Somehow she remembered cookies, flowers, paper towels, and coffee creamer, yet completely forgot the

chicken she needed for dinner. We both laughed because we've both done it.

Life has a wonderful way of reminding us that we're human. The older I get, the more convinced I become that burnout isn't always asking us to do less. Sometimes it's simply asking us to stop expecting ourselves to be superheroes. Real people get tired. Real people need quiet afternoons now and then. Real people occasionally decide that scrambled eggs make a perfectly respectable dinner because nobody has the energy to cook anything more complicated. Oddly enough, the world keeps turning.

I've also noticed something interesting about the people I admire most. They aren't the ones who never become tired. They're the ones who recognize when it's time to slow down, take a deep breath, and give themselves permission to rest without apologizing for it.

That kind of wisdom becomes more valuable every year. Perhaps rest isn't something we earn after everything is finished. Perhaps it's something we need in order to keep enjoying the life we're working so hard to build. I like that thought. It feels kinder. If there's one thing this world could use a little more of, it's kindness. Especially the kind

we offer ourselves.

"Rest isn't a reward for finishing everything.

It's one of the ways we care for the life we've been given."

— LifeStreams360™

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By Megan Foster